a question for everybody with Mars in Gemini

topic posted Sat, August 19, 2006 - 1:03 AM by  mustafa
what attracts you most in your partner?
his / her gestures? cheerfulness? laughter?
appearance? elegance? wisdom?
creativeness? quick-wittedness? foolishness?
stability? voice?
the appreciation and sympathy s/he has for you? giving you freedom?
pride? authority? mercilessness?
or being an interesting person above all?
posted by:
mustafa
Turkey
  • Re: a question for everybody with Mars in Gemini

    Sat, August 19, 2006 - 1:40 AM
    My mars in gemini influences my choice in partners in a few different ways. First, his level of intelligence needs to be equal or greater to mine. A cutting wit always gets me every time and on a more physical level, my mars forces me to experience desire in the mind before it manifests into something physically beautiful. A man who can seduce me with thoughts and words would attract me more than a man who just went thru the motions... if you know what I mean.
    • i agree with you Copper, that i am first aroused in the mind, i love this part you wrote:

      "A man who can seduce me with thoughts and words would attract me more than a man who just went thru the motions... if you know what I mean."

      and these are the parts of my lover that attract me most:

      appearance
      voice
      the appreciation and sympathy s/he has for you
      cheerfulness
      laughter


  • Re: a question for everybody with Mars in Gemini

    Thu, October 19, 2006 - 2:24 PM
    Hmm.. haven't really thought about that until now, but I would say intelligence and sense of humor are the number one things!!! When a guy is just amazingly smart, witty, and also values the "funny" in life, I would pretty much consider him a catch... of course, there are a few other things I am attracted to as well... emotional stability, loyalty, an open-mind, self-motivation, and independence. A healthy competitive spirit isn't too bad either.
  • Re: a question for everybody with Mars in Gemini

    Fri, November 3, 2006 - 5:40 AM
    Hello

    My Mars is in Gemini on the ascendant.

    I am attracted to lots of different things such as good sense of humour and being able to hold a good conversation on a variety of subjects. Of course I am attracted by looks, I think everone is to some extent. Similar interests are not always that important as it is important to have enough freedom to explore your own interests. What I find as my relationships progress is that the relationship is doomed if that person does not have the same sort of drive as me; we end up splitting up. I don't like lazy people or having to 'babysit' people as I call it.

    Louise
  • Re: a question for everybody with Mars in Gemini

    Tue, January 23, 2007 - 4:21 AM
    I love animated people who talk alot and move around alot. Lots of expression. A sense of humour. Someone who just seems happy to be alive.

    Boring people shit me to tears.

    Someone who jokes around and laughs alot. Someone with a quick tongue. Intelligence ranks high. Interesting and fun stories to tell.

    Someone who likes to have fun all the time and is happy with who they are.
  • Re: a question for everybody with Mars in Gemini

    Sun, February 4, 2007 - 9:52 AM
    only recently found out that i have a mars in gemini... not sure if thats very significant in my choices of a partner...

    anyhow, i am just soooo intrigued with conversations!! most of my relationships started off with very intense, interesting, and witty conversation!! without them, i think it wil be really hard for me to fall for the person. if he can't engage me via my brains, i can't imagine how i can be engaged anywhere else!

    a good sense of humor is also in order, someone who knows how to laugh at life....... just never know how to deal with perpetually negative people!

    oh and also someone who can give me a sense of freedom. someone who wouldnt think that my constant periods of absence (due to my need to do things important to me) is a sign of non committal attitude... i need my space!! hate the cloying sensation!!!

    - girl-in-fuschia
    • Re: a question for everybody with Mars in Gemini

      Mon, March 17, 2008 - 4:04 PM
      I just have to agree with all of you!
      Intelligence, broadmindedness. Quick-wittedness!!!!! But only when it comes naturally and isn't used as a seduction device. The same goes for the abillity to make me laugh (love it).
      Some people just don't know how verbally-attractive they are. That's part of the attraction.

      There has to be that inexplicable physical attraction ofcourse, something spicy. Good energy. Youthfulness.
      And hands, the right touch (I've also got Moon in Gemini, conjunct Mars)! But words always come first.

      Sense of freedom, very important.
      And i love it when someone has a love and drive for something i don't share: when our drive is similar, but our interests are different.
      I'm bored easily and i know my own already...

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